Several months ago while I was on my Vipassana meditation retreat, I was captivated by the idea that change is a constant. By unplugging for ten days and increasing my sense of awareness, it became very apparent that objects around us and within us, even at the tiniest levels, are always in a state of flux. Despite the fleeting nature of everything, we as humans tend to cling to objects, people, places, memories, emotional states, etc.. We crave permanence even though impermanence stares us in the face. When I returned home, I became obsessed with this question: if everything is constantly changing then why is it so hard for most people to change old habits and develop new habits?Read More
This Q&A originally appeared on the Lift App blog.
Why did you start meditating? What was your goal?
I started to meditate because I desperately wanted to spend less time in the past and the future and more time in the present. Additionally, I tend to be a very anxious person so I was looking for a daily practice that ground me and calm my mind. When I initially started, my goal was to practice least once a day and record how I felt after each session. I found it very easy to incorporate it into my daily routine.
What is your meditation routine?
The style of meditation that I learned is called Vedic. The idea is to practice twice a day for about twenty minutes. I’ve adopted that schedule and have found it super easy to incorporate into my busy life. I’ve made this a priority so each day I block out enough time to make sure I get in my fix. In the morning, I’ll roll out of bed, drink a glass of water and immediately start my practice. No email. No TV. Just water and mediation. It’s the first thing I do every day. In the afternoon when I’m about to hit a wall and I usually reach for sugar and caffeine, I’ll lock myself in a conference room or my office for a quick session. Before I started to meditate I’d usually take fifteen to twenty minutes in the afternoon for coffee so finding a bit of extra time wasn’t an issue.Read More
While on vacation I decided to finally read the timeless classic by Dale Carnegie, ‘How to Win Friends and Influence People.’ The book was first published in 1936 and has sold more than fifteen million copies worldwide. It’s the granddaddy of all people skill books. Many of the lessons contained within are still relevant for anyone that deals with people. Given Venture Capital is a highly social business with thousands of human touch points each year, this book was probably one of the most important I have ever read.
We have a saying at RRE that our brand is the sum total of the positive and negative interactions that someone has with our team. Every touchpoint matters regardless of the medium (face to face, email, social media, etc.) and those involved (founders, limited partners, other VCs, etc.). At the most fundamental level, we operate in relationship-driven industry so we’re only as good as the interactions that people have with us (and of course the success of our investments).Read More